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Go ahead and ask.

Date: 2007-04-20 09:33 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] thespos
1) How did you meet your hubby?

2) When were you sure you wanted to have children together?

3) What special challenges have you faced, and how would you advise other non-traditional families?

Any or all. :-)

Date: 2007-04-20 11:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
1. At a Canadian Thanksgiving party in Vancouver held by my aunt with me as the guest of honour as we had just met. Hubby lived next door with his parents and they were invited.

He says he saw me across a crowded room and new I was the one. I was on my fifth ceasar (Canadian drink like a screwdriver but using clamato juice instead of tomato juice), so I don't remember anything.

2. We talked about it for a few years but after friends of ours adopted a boy and a girl we asked them for advice and used their contacts. About 5-6 years into our relationship hubby got very clucky and no matter how much I tried we couldn't get pregnant.

3. We don't consider ourselves a non-traditional family. There is no operational manual, no exams, no tests. Anyone can put aside precautions and make a baby. Not everyone is suited and not everyone can afford the time, effort, energy, finances but the rewards are countless and endless.

We haven't faced ant challenges yet, they are all still before us. As the saying goes you cross that bridge when you come to it.

Advice? Have a strong commitment. Have faith in what you are doing is right. Always put the child first. Have a strong family and friends who are there for you.

Date: 2007-04-20 09:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
A long time ago, I stated that men with beards who shaved their heads was odd.

You responded with something along the lines of, and I loosely (I've had wine, and it was a long time ago) quote, "I don't like men who femenise their bodies.

Query: Is that still true?

Date: 2007-04-20 11:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Beards and shaved heads IS odd.

I don't like men who remove all traces of body hair especially if they do it to resemble prepubescent youth.

If I wanted to fuck 12 year olds I'd become a paedophile not pretend with some 20-something shaved within an inch of his life.

Although when Ian was swimming and shaved everything he did look hot. Must have been the over developed shoulders.

Date: 2007-04-20 10:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Also, howabout a coffee sometime?

Date: 2007-04-20 11:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Sure. How about lunch my treat?

I know a great place called Spinners at Jupiters on Broadbeach Island.

Date: 2007-04-20 02:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Sure, I wouldn't mind visiting QLD there a spray to keep the bogans off?

Date: 2007-04-20 04:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Easy off BAM. BAM! And the dirt is gone!

Date: 2007-04-20 06:49 pm (UTC)
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Date: 2007-04-20 06:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Both times I came out first by about 11 minutes. It confused our parents because we were both dating girls. As Matt put it at the time, penis tastes better.


Date: 2007-04-20 04:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
If you had one wish, and it would come true, what would it be?

Date: 2007-04-20 06:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
A never ending packet of pink Tim Tams.

Date: 2007-04-20 08:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
They go right to your hips.

Date: 2007-04-20 11:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Via my lips.

Date: 2007-04-21 03:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
*lol* World piece can fuck right off, we want Tim Tams!!

Date: 2007-04-20 04:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Do you have any photos of you, the hubby and your kids? I swear you've had the same icon of you since I first met you!

Date: 2007-04-20 06:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Both Si and I decided to limit the amount of pics on the net for security and privacy issues. Google isn't always a blessing.

I hate having my pic taken and most that exist are candid not posed. Si uses web cam pics of himself when we were seperated by the pacific ocean during our move back to Oz.

Date: 2007-04-20 08:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
why won't you adopt me!?!?
i want to be fabulous too.

Date: 2007-04-20 08:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
You ARE fabulous m'luv.

Ani has a high profile to speak...I learned a long time ago not to "push" too much tho. He'll tell you WAZZZZZUP eventually...although, I unintentionally caught on to the first baby (Declan) thing....cuz I'm a stalker like that.

Date: 2007-04-20 09:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
well I know it's high profile...
I don't what that kind of fabulousness...
I mean being the cream in a gay australian oreo family.

Date: 2007-04-20 11:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Everyone knows you are young and beautiful but you're not that young. You are over 18...just. So I can't adopt you.

You are fabulous darling! Any more fabulous and you'll be a lesbian. :P

Date: 2007-04-21 09:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
oh pooh.
I totally missed my chance.

and you know I'm teasing.
I just think you're loving and wonderful and I look at the people that raised me and wonder how i survived sometimes.


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